Paradoxical But With Faith

The Paradoxical Commandments
by Dr. Kent M. Keith

People are illogical, unreasonable, and self-centered.
Love them anyway.

If you do good, people will accuse you of selfish ulterior motives.
Do good anyway.

If you are successful, you will win false friends and true enemies.
Succeed anyway.

The good you do today will be forgotten tomorrow.
Do good anyway.

Honesty and frankness make you vulnerable.
Be honest and frank anyway.

The biggest men and women with the biggest ideas can be shot down by the smallest men and women with the smallest minds.
Think big anyway.

People favor underdogs but follow only top dogs.
Fight for a few underdogs anyway.

What you spend years building may be destroyed overnight.
Build anyway.

People really need help but may attack you if you do help them.
Help people anyway.

Give the world the best you have and you'll get kicked in the teeth.
Give the world the best you have anyway.

© Copyright Kent M. Keith 1968, renewed 2001

last Sunday, i went for a drink with my bestfren which just get back from sumwer.. with him was his older brother whim we know whenever the beer is on the table, a lot of topics to be talk about. there's one topic which attracts me the most, that is "Paradoxical But With Faith". SInce born, as we know, we are christians, but the question is, are we really are as wat we claim we are? my bestfriend claims that "humans are monkeys with religions". we were tought of God, Jesus and other bible charactors. now, he went for youth programs organized by the church and others church activities.. he was never touched by christ like other friends, Clarification on the definition of “paradoxical.” “Paradoxical” doesn't mean “contradictory” but only “seemingly” so. It's because the logic behind a paradox is deep that it is not readily evident. I'd say a paradox is "an enigmatic truth" that needs to be discovered by scratching the surface, then digging deep. Contradiction is mere irony, if not illogic. and today, he is paradoxical, but with faith..

God works in many ways in our lives..

so, bro, chill la.. Keep that faith running.. u remember our jogerthon last time? i think u still got the shirt stated " Run for Christ"..

Amen, Bro?

Silhouette Angel

Hey guys,

i've gone crazy!!!!!...

by the way, Check out my Website.. www.silhouette-angel.com

still under construction though.. appreciate your comments..

daaaa...

Today..

warghhhh... today has been a lousy day for me.. i've been cracking my head all day to complete my monthly reports which i haven even started on coz no co-operation from my colleagues. complaining people here and there is their specialities. they are like NATO (No Action, Talk Only)punya style.. i've been chasing them like forever but they never co-op. which part in A.S.A.P they do not understand? very tiring.. need rest. gotta go now.. daaaa...

10 commandments after saying, "I do."

(1) Do not place others before one another. For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife.

(2) Let nothing on earth become more important than your marriage. Seek first God's will in your marriage and the other things will come as He desires.

(3) Speak to one another with kindness and love. Like apples of gold in settings of silver is a word kindly spoken.

(4) Remember to worship together. Oh come, let us worship and bow down. Let us kneel before the Lord our maker. For He is our God.

(5) Love and accept one another's family as your own. Your people shall be my people.

(6) Do not harm one another with words, attitudes, or actions. Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, clamor and evil speaking be put away from you... and be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ has forgiven you.

(7) Be faithful to one another. The fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. And the two shall become one flesh.

(8) Never take joy from one another. Above all things put on love, which holds everything together in perfect harmony.

(9) Always speak the truth in love. The Lord will show you what is right and true, that you may always speak with integrity.

(10) Do not desire or be envious of what others may have. I have learned that in whatsoever state I may be, to be content.

Angel's..

An angel is a spiritual supernatural being found in many religions. Although the nature of angels and the tasks given to them vary from tradition to tradition, in Christianity, Judaism and Islam, they often act as messengers from God. Other roles in religious traditions include acting as warrior or guard; the concept of a "guardian angel" is popular in modern Western culture.
Angels are usually viewed as emanations of a supreme divine being, sent to do the tasks of that being. Traditions vary as to whether angels have free will or are merely extensions of the supreme being's will. While the appearance of angels also varies, many views of angels give them a human shape.

Tense!!

The Moment you are in Tension

You will lose your Attention

Then you are in total Confusion

And you will feel Irritation

Then you will spoil personal Relation

Ultimately, you won't get Co - Operation

Then you will make things Complication

Then your blood pressure may raise Caution

And you may have to take Medication

Instead, understand the Situation

And try to think about the Solution

Many problems will be solved by Discussion

This will work out better in your Profession

Don't think it's my free Suggestion

It's only for your Prevention

If you understand my Intention

You will never come again to Tension

Office Politics

Office politics "is the use of one's individual or assigned power within an employing organization for the purpose of obtaining advantages beyond one's legitimate authority. Those advantages may include access to tangible assets, or intangible benefits such as status or pseudo-authority that influences the behavior of others. Both individuals and groups may engage in Office Politics." [2]

Office politics differs from office gossip in that people participating in office politics do so with the objective of gaining advantage, whereas gossip can be a purely social activity. However, both activities are highly related to each other.
Office politics also refers to the way co-workers act among each other. It can be either positive or negative.


i've got a call from a very good fren earlier this morning. she complained on my "ex-colleagues" espescially all the women. Well, i've warned her on it when she accept the offer of working there.. at first it went well i think.. With all the happy hour and outings by the company and she was well-loved by her boss.

This is my part of the story..

Since I’ve joined that company (not actually joined la coz i was employed under third party) I mean the very first day, all of the guys greeted me well.. They smiled, they say hi, they approached.. Unlike the women’s, they just sit down there and play stupid and pretend not to notice me (show off seniority la tek?).

Few days passes by, I came to heard that they've been gossiping bout me.. Well, I dun give a damn bout it coz I know they are not the hands that feed me but sometimes it does get on my nerves.. To tell you frankly, my head of department is very flexible, caring and always take cares of his staff’s welfare.. When Everybody starts work at 7.30, I come late at 8.00am coz I have obligation towards my family (send my kid and hubby).. At 9.30am, I go breakfast. Sometimes with boss and mostly was with my good fren, came back at 10.30am (depends).. Lunch at 12.00pm till 1pm (which I came back around 1.30 or 2pm).. 3pm- tea break time and 4.30 n the dot, off pc, say good bye and off I go.. Now, tell me, is my boss the type you’ve been looking forward to work with?.. And YES, stated is my everyday routine.

My boss has never scolded me nor never a question asked. Nevertheless, all the women’s in the office seems jealous of me and 3 in particular (maybe, I am toooo hot for them). Gossiping on me is a necessary routine for them whenever they are at the pantry or any “Hypocrites” get together. They sometimes insinuated me.

One day, they have complotted to bring me down from my reigning. They complained to the DAMN, JERK Prefect...DJP called me to his room for a brainwash and on my way to DJP’s room, I saw their smirks. I felt irritated and anger overcomes me. After my brainwashing session was over, Guess what? My boss went to see DJP to brain wash him as he did me. I won't forget what he told that DJP on that particular day.. He words was “she is my family, she is in MY department, before you get to her, go through ME! Do you understand?!" I bet u can guess the looks on all that ladies who dislikes me goes especially the 3 hypocrites.... I was relieved.

Its been known that our PM dislikes the way that DJP manages things. I wonder why PM didn’t demoted DJP for his miss-use of power or even worse, terminate him.. Soon it comes to my sense that all the Project Management Team are bound to contract of 3 years.

To all the ladies of this particular company, hey hello.. I have resigned from that company, you guys should be happy coz there’s no one to be jealous of but instead you ladies are still jealous of me is it? I heard u ladies still makes up stories of me up till now.. Before you mock or whatever it is that is in it, have a view yourself in front of the mirror. In addition, ask yourself, are you perfect? Like my Good fren says “you are flawless.. But still, I’m not like you!” Shame on you women. If u still want to talk about me, carry on coz you will never go anywhere while i get famous because of you. And the best thing is, I’m on top of you! .. wakakkakakka... to my good friend, patience and perseverance..

TireDneSs..

argggghhhh.... i really need a break la.. very the tired.. with house chores, with my family, with my works.. not fair that ony women do all task in the house nowadays.. oh ya, i forgot.. women ony entittled 1 leave per year and that is MOTHER"S day.. so gals... you have to be married and a mum to entittle for this.. feels like going for a massage today.. oopsss... i forgot! (got la sumtin.. dun bz body).. gotta go, my bosses are nagging me again nowwww.... :-(

Thanks to LeeZie..

1. The person who last tag you is:
- Leezie

2. Your relationship with him/her is:
- BFF (kiddies way of saying it..)

3. Your five ten impression of him/her:
- 10/10 Great friend

4. The most memorable thing he/she had done for you:
- Ermmmm.... Lots.. we're always der for each other..

5. The most memorable thing he/she had said to you:
- Lots.. (dun Remember)

6. If he/she becomes your lover, you will:
- I'll Answer tis after i think i'm going homo!

7. If he/she becomes your lover, thing he/she has to improve on will be:
- Ermmmmm.... (how to ans tis a, bet?)

8. If he/she becomes your enemy, you will:
- My Question is Will she ever Be? (bet, defend urself) hahahhah

9. If he/she become your enemy, the reason will be:
- Ermmmm... Whose the first to get baby girl?.. hahha

10. The most desired thing you want to do for him/her now is:
- Bring her out for yam Cha (she "ALWAYS" complaint that she's lonely)

11. Your overall impression of him/her is:
- in one word? still "Great" need i add "Test" more?

12. How you think people around you will feel about you?:
- I'm not that famous..

13. The characters you love of yourself are:
- Life of the Party? (hahaha)

14. On the contrary, the characters you hate yourself are:
- Assumptions

15. The most ideal person you want to be is:
- Erm.. i Still wanna be Me.. i love being Me..

16. For people that care and like you, say something to them:
- Thanks ya'll for always be there for me.. luv ya..

17. Pass this quiz to 10 persons that you wished to know how they feel about you:I’m going to make it just 4 so I’m tagging:

1. http://damndirtyangel.blogspot.com/
2. http://moodycrap.blogspot.com/
3. http://leezie-life.blogspot.com/
4. http://d3bb.blogspot.com/


17. Who is no. 4 having relationship with?
- She's Happily Married with an adorable daughter named Darlene Joyce Mathew

18. Is no.3 a male or female?
- Female

19. If no.1 and 4 are together, will it be a good thing?
- Maybe.. if no. 4 is still single

20. What is no.2 studying about?
- IT i think.. (andrew, check!)

21. When was the last time you had a chat with no.3?
- Today.. Online..

22. What kind of music band does no.4 like?
- RnB? dunno lah..

23. Does no.1 have any siblings?
- Yes, another 2.. (btl ka, kanid?) hahhaha..

24. Will you woo no.3?
- Yes...we luv each other2 (Borrow abet's ans) true wat....

5. How about no.4?
- Same Goes..

27. What is the surname of no.4?
- Baya

28. What’s the hobby of no.4?
- Dunno.. biting nails maybe?

29. Does no.1 and 2 get along well?
- Nop, they dunno each other i think..

30. Where is no.2 studying?
- Now Nomore.. last time Inti Kch..

31. Talk something casually about no.1:
- Tattoo's ... he lurvesssssssss... tattoos...

33. Where does no.3 live?
- In a house on a land..

34. What color does no.4 like?
- No Idea.. fluoroscent?

35. Are no.4 and 1 best friend?
- Nop... Friends Maybe..

36. Does no.1 have any pets?
- (Kanid Arthy, Answer pliz..)

37. Is no.3the sexiest person in the world?
- Definitely! Hot Momma wat..

38. What is no. 3 doing now?
- Online Facebook since CB doesn't assign her any tasks..

i'M addiCted tO faCeBooK..

nowdays i'm a facebook maniac (i had to admit it). hahaha.. whenever theres workloads or not, i'm still gonna check out my facebook. i've juz gone thru some stickers to pass around.. upload some for u guys.. check it out.. it's cute..

Every girl dreams...

1. Getting kissed in the pouring rain

2. Have that one hott kiss where you're pressed against the wall

3. Having guy that thinks you're the world

4. Having a guy that holds on as long as possible when giving hugs

5. A guy that whispers he loves you in your ear

6. Have that moment where, you just gaze into eachother's eyes

7. When you cry, he kisses your tears away

8. When you're not with your guy, he's all that you can think about

9. Wearing his jacket and everytime you breath in, his scent surrounds you

10. A guy who will watch any movie with you, no matter how teary eyed you may get.

11. A guy who squeezes your hand

12. A guy that says he loves you and means it

13. A guy who is loyal

14. A guy that will sing to you no matter how bad he is at it

15. A guy that will kiss you on the forehead

16. A guy that will call you beautiful or adorable or pretty...not hot, fine, or sexy

17. A guy that will never judge you for how you look

18. A guy that says cheezy stuff to you just to make you smile

19. A guy that is the same when he is with you and when with friends

20. A guy that tells you everything honestly

21. A guy that is good with your family and introduces you to his family

22. A guy that will always let you win

23. A guy who stands up for you no matter who he is against

24. A guy who calls you at night just to say 'hi' and see how your day has been

25. A guy who tells you that your smile makes everything better

26. A guy who will sit on the phone with you when you're sad, even if you're quiet

27. A guy who you can hangout and have fun with

28. A guy that will just randonmly call you for no reason at all, just because he missed you

29. A guy who will hold your hand through the roughest parts of life

30. A guy who would love you forever no matter the circumstance

31. A guy who wouldn't mind you wanting to get all dressed up and do your make up for him.
Even if he says he likes you better without make up.

32. A guy who you can be yourself with and he will never give a care and would still tell you that you are amazing to him

33. A guy who runs his fingers through your hair, like he's washing your worries/troubles away.

34. A guy who tells you, you make his day better, just for being with you

35: A guy that you could run to, tears streaming down your face and mascara running with it and the first thing he says is "Baby, you're beautiful."

36.Leave her cute messages

37. Kiss her in front of your friends

38. Trust her over everyone else

39. Tell her she looks beautiful

40. Look her in the eye when you talk to her

41. Tell her stupid jokes to make her laugh

42. Let her mess with your hair

43. Just walk around with her

44. Include her in almost everything you do

45. When she crys do whatever to make her smile

46. Forgive her for her mistakes

47. Look at her like she's the only girl you see

48. Tickle her even if she says stop she secretly loves it (but not too much)

49. When she starts swearing at you tell her you love her

50. Let her fall asleep in your arms

51. Get her mad, then kiss her

52. Tease her and let her tease you back

53. Stay up with her all night when she's sick

54. Watch her favorite movie

55. Give her the world

56. Write her letters

57. Let her wear your clothes

58. When she's sad, hang out with her

59. Let her know she is important

60. Let her take all the photos of you she wants

61. Kiss her in the rain

62. And when you fall in love with her, tell her

63. And when you do tell her.. Love her like you never loved before

Monday Blues...

Hey guys, MONDAY!!! its always blues...

i found this... hahahah...

There's actually a scientific explanation behind those dreaded Monday morning blues. Our internal clocks naturally operate on a day that is longer than 24 hours. By the time Monday rolls around each week, we've built up a sleep deficit of at least an hour. Of course, the weekend revelries and facing another work week don't help matters. Here are some tips to make Monday mornings a little easier.

Step 1-If you can, sleep in an extra hour on Monday mornings. Going to bed early on Sunday night doesn't always help because most people will remain awake until their usual bedtime.

Step 2 -If you can't sleep in by a full hour (and most of us can't), take action Sunday night to shorten your morning preparation time so that you can set the alarm for 15 minutes later than usual. Wash your hair, pack lunches, lay out your outfit or pack your briefcase on Sunday night.

Step 3 - Hop out of bed the moment you wake up on Monday morning. Lingering in that downy comforter will only draw out the agony.

Step 4 - End your shower with a jolt of cold water to tear yourself out of your grogginess. Or exercise in the morning to get your blood pumping and to release those feel-good endorphins.

Step 5 - Get out in the sunlight. Bright light tells your body that it is indeed the morning and helps reset your internal clock.

Step 6 - Drink coffee or another caffeine beverage. Although it's not healthy to drink caffeine to the point of addiction, caffeine, when used in moderation, can give your Monday mornings that much-needed oomph and alertness.

Step 7 - Anticipate your Monday morning on Friday afternoon. Fight the temptation to race away from a messy desk. Clean up your desk and leave yourself a to-do list to make Monday morning a little more tolerable.

link here for more : http://www.ehow.com/how_117079_beat-monday-morning.html

Political Views

yesterday me and hubby went for a beer with an old friend.. we started topics on works to kids to my hubby being relocated to KK and somehow they landed on the political views when our friend, i refer as "Tuan" joined us. I think my hubby started the topic, well here's the summary of their opinions..

Brian : Government is not reliable and double standard. They forsaken the people who have sacrificed their lives for the country espescially warriors from sarawak. Very few of our sarawakian warriors go down in history. such as the Ming Court Affair Counselors, they are not appreciated but been demoted for protecting their boundaries.

Victor : Politics are Dirty games. Money talks all the time. Politicians are Phsycologically and mentally prepared. they always say "do as i say not as i do" but they forgot that the malaysians observed and judge them.

Gabriel : Sokong lah Pembangkang! (ermmmm....) hahaha..

Ngulu : Politicians always NATO (No Action Talk Only). What is Demokrasi for? We are not free to voice out. Only Government free to put us in jail everytime we mock them.

Tuan : Whatever it is, if you're not satisfied with the Government, voice it out.. ( Yes, Tuan. But to WHO????)

in my opinion after observing them debating, if you don't vote, don't ever try to voice out your disatisfaction. WE (the voters) choose the government today. whats more left to say?

hahhaha... (these debating session happens whenever "the beer is talking") like sarawakians use to say, "udah ngirup aik berani alu berani..", till then..

Merdeka!

Hey guys, wow!! Merdeka day again. believe it or not, we had been declared sovereignty for five (5) centuries already.. i remember my late grandpa use to tell us cousins story of the "great" himself.. (he have proof la) hahahh... when he sits down and all my cousins and siblings would gather around him for his "those were the days" stories. i still remember his story on the japanese cruelties towards the village peoples, on how mighty he was in his teens years where he get to kill people and not charged (japanese soldiers) and a lot more. he can go on and on for the whole year and we never get bored of listening. miss him so much. Well, on behalf of the last generation of 20th century, i would like to thank Tunku Abdul Rahman Putra Al-Haj for spearheading and effort on independence. Thank you very much, our Bapa Kemerdekaan! (soooo emotional!) hahah.. and guys, Selamat menyambut hari Kemerdekaan.

MERDEKA!

MERDEKA!!

MERDEKA!!!

MERDEKA!!!!

MERDEKA!!!!!

MERDEKA!!!!!!

MERDEKA!!!!!!!